I previously wrote about: The Golden Rule: Do unto to others as you would have them do unto you! It was a reminder about the importance of getting back to the basics. When the basics are forgotten or taken for granted, relationships suffer and conflict increases! However, The Golden Rule … [Read more...] about Time for an Upgrade: Moving beyond the Golden Rule
I Didn’t Mean To! Learn to own the impact you have on others
Learning to own the impact we have on others is essential to developing effective personal and professional relationships. Being defensive and placing blame are common tactics that only escalate misunderstandings and conflict. When we place blame, it prevents us from accepting the role we play, no … [Read more...] about I Didn’t Mean To! Learn to own the impact you have on others
I Didn’t Mean To! Learn to own the impact you have on others
Learning to own the impact we have on others is essential to developing effective personal and professional relationships. Being defensive and placing blame are common tactics that only escalate misunderstandings and conflict. When we place blame, it prevents us from accepting the role we play, no … [Read more...] about I Didn’t Mean To! Learn to own the impact you have on others
Beware! Joy Thieves are on the Loose
No matter where you go, there is always someone who is out to steal your joy. Different thieves may be motivated by different things and use different tactics, but the result is the same. They target you to steal your joy, leaving you feeling frustrated, aggravated, angry, and even sad. Mission … [Read more...] about Beware! Joy Thieves are on the Loose
Having difficult conversations! The Awareness Wheel-a tried and true method
Just writing the title makes me a little uncomfortable. Having those difficult conversations stirs up a range of emotions; all of which makes us want to avoid them. We fear saying the wrong thing and having the situation escalate or being misunderstood and not heard. Sometimes it just seems easier … [Read more...] about Having difficult conversations! The Awareness Wheel-a tried and true method
Got crabs? Fine tuning your support system
Having a strong support system is an essential tool for success! Too often we take for granted that our friends and families are going to be there for us. When you are making changes in your life for the better, you may find that some of the people in your circle don’t really have your … [Read more...] about Got crabs? Fine tuning your support system
Effort and Shortcuts: What’s the difference?
One of the largest generation gaps I find today is in the definition of effort and shortcuts. If those words do not have the same meaning for you and those with whom you work or work for, it can be the cause of misunderstanding and conflict, some more severe as you’ll soon discover as you read on. … [Read more...] about Effort and Shortcuts: What’s the difference?
My boss sucks! 4 Rules to improving life at work
Do love your job, but hate your boss? You've found a great job, it pays well and is something you can get excited about, the only problem is... your boss sucks. I’ve had my share of crappy bosses and it never ceases to amaze me how often the wrong person becomes “the boss”. How does this happen? … [Read more...] about My boss sucks! 4 Rules to improving life at work